I usually have a rule that I adhere to all the time.
You don't talk to your ex.
I personally think that it gets more confusing and causes possible emotions to rise without some sort of repercussion.
But in this situation: She kind of threw me off guard and just annoying:
Ex: So yeah, I just wanted to say, "hi" ^_^
Me: Uh.. ok.
Ex: So, do you miss me?
Me: No. I try not to think about it.
Ex: You don't miss the sex?
Me: What guy wouldn't? But it's not worth it.
Ex: When I was with you, I wanted to have sex more.
Me: (Somewhat agitated) Really? So all those times, when I initiate, you turning me down was just a fluke? Get the f'ck out of here.
Ex: Oh no.. I wanted to. But I was stressing over (work, family drama) that I couldn't. But I really liked it and I wanted to do it more and more.
I'm kind of annoyed by this. Why would she bring this up?
Women in general are the kings of mind games.